Sunday, February 14, 2010
The Very First Abby Show - October 2004
Monday, February 08, 2010
Winter Wonderland
Saturday, February 06, 2010
The Old Fisherman
Maybe we did lose roomers once or twice. But oh! If only they could have known him, perhaps their illness' would have been easier to bear. I know our family will always be grateful to have known him. From him, we learned what it was to accept the bad without complaint and the good with gratitude to God.
Recently I was visiting a friend who has a greenhouse. As she showed me her flowers, we came to the most beautiful one of all ... a golden chrysanthemum, bursting with blooms. But to my great surprise, it was growing in an old dented, rusty bucket.
I thought to myself, "If this were my plant, I'd put it in the loveliest container I had!" My friend changed my mind.
Sunday, January 24, 2010
"In God We Trust"
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
May God be with you and bless you:
May you see your children's children.
May you be poor in misfortune,
Rich in blessings.
May you know nothing but happiness
From this day forward.
May the road rise up to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May the warm rays of sun fall upon your home
And may the hand of a friend always be near.
May green be the grass you walk on,
May blue be the skies above you,
May pure be the joys that surround you,
May true be the hearts that love you.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Mystery of the Lost Remote Control
If I had a dollar for every time I lost something, I’d be at least $500 richer. The frustration of a missing item is bad enough, but the real struggle is the mental "itch"—I simply can’t focus on anything else until the item is found.
Take our camcorder remote, for example. After three weeks of searching, I gave up and asked my brother, Russ—an eBay veteran—to "Buy It Now" for me. We hadn't used the camera in a year, and I suspected it might have been left at a family reunion. I figured it was a lost cause.
Naturally, two days after Russ bought the replacement, I had a "Eureka!" moment. I remembered a specific box from 2008, back when I was recovering from foot surgery. During my recovery, my office was moved into my bedroom, and my small desk items—including that remote—had been swept into a nursing home storage box during the move back.
My memory is funny that way. I can’t remember what I ate for lunch yesterday, but I can "rewind" a year to find a remote. It’s the same with names; I once spent an hour lying in bed reciting the alphabet just to remember my cousin's son, Adam.
Does your memory ever go on strike like that? Do you use the alphabet trick too? If so, welcome to the club!
Saturday, January 16, 2010
The Abby Show
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Music Galore on YouTube
| Lee Ann Womack - I Hope You Dance |
| Sara Evans - I Could Not Ask For More |
Wednesday, January 06, 2010
God's Message is Powerful
I dreamed I had an INTERVIEW WITH GOD.
“So you would like to interview me?” GOD asked.
“If you have the time,” I said.
God smiled. “My time is eternity… what questions do you have in mind for me?”
“What surprises you most about humankind?”
God answered…
“That they get bored with childhood, they rush to grow up, and then long to be children again.”
“That they lose their health to make money… and then lose their money to restore their health.”
“That by thinking anxiously about the future, they forget the present, such that they live in neither the present nor the future.“
“That they live as if they will never die and die as though they had never lived.”
GOD’S hand took mine and we were silent for awhile.
And then I asked, “As a parent, what are some of life’s lessons you want your children to learn?”
“To learn they cannot make anyone love them. All they can do is let themselves me loved.”
“To learn that it is not good to compare themselves to others.”
“To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness.”
“To learn that it only takes a few seconds to open profound wounds in those they love, and it can take many years to heal them.”
“To learn that a rich person is not one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.”
“To learn that there are people who love them dearly, but simply do not yet know how to express or show their feelings.”
‘To learn that two people can look at the same thing and see it differently.”
“To learn that it is not enough that they forgive one another, but they must also forgive themselves.”
“Thank you for your time,” I said humbly. “Is there anything else you’d like your children to know?”
GOD smiled and said…
Friday, January 01, 2010
Happy New Year!!!
- Practice Optimism: I want to take life one day at a time instead of worrying about the future.
- Beat Procrastination: I'll use to-do lists to stay organized and productive.
- Prioritize Movement: I’ll continue my morning bed exercises and stay active with walking.
- Healthy Weight Gain: My goal is to reach 120 lbs by mid-March to prepare for my next surgery.
- Food Freedom: I’m officially moving past restrictive diets like Phase 1 and Alkaline. I’ve learned I can tolerate grains without flare-ups, and I’m ready to enjoy food again—healthy, organic, and even the occasional gluten treat. It’s time to eat as nature intended!
- Gratitude: I’ll thank God daily for my life and express my deep appreciation to my family—especially my mom—and my friends for their tireless support during my hardest days.
Saturday, December 19, 2009
First Real Snow of the Season
Friday, December 18, 2009
Digestion Problems = Weight Loss
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Dusting Off the Blog: What I’ve Been Up To



Confined but Moving Forward
For 73 days, I was confined to a bed or wheelchair, relying on Spirit Medical Transport for every appointment. The most intense period was the two weeks spent turning the struts. Even in millimeter increments, the torque was so strong that my brother could feel the strain as he helped me.Sunday, November 02, 2008
Hanging in There
Monday, July 03, 2006
Nice to Meet You!
Life in North Star
This led me to title my blog "Walking With God By My Side." As you can see from my photos, my body is "not normal," and I am the first to admit that. The "curves" I have are the result of living with Rheumatoid Arthritis since July 1970, when I was diagnosed at age nine.


- Left Hand (1975): The surgeon repaired my wrist and knuckles. While I cannot straighten my fingers, I can now close my hand. Though I am naturally right-handed, I became ambidextrous out of necessity and use this hand for my computer mouse.
- Right Hand (1976): My knuckles and joints were replaced with plastic and fused. Because my hand cannot open wide enough to hold a mouse, I use it primarily for writing.
- Knees and Hips (1978): By my junior year of high school, I could only stand for 30 seconds at a time. I had both knees replaced in June 1978. Unfortunately, due to the use of casts after surgery, my knees never regained their flexibility. In August, I had my right hip replaced with a steel joint.





